Get Your QUARK on!

Good Sunday morning to you! I hope the month of September has been a pleasant one for you and one filled with happiness, good weather and soaking up the last days of the Summer season! It’s hard to believe the Fall season is only days away, but I must admit, I am looking forward to apple picking, enjoying the tastes of winter squash, and taking in the beautiful assortment of Fall foliage!

That being said, I tend to think of the Fall season as a prime chance for new beginnings. For me, the Fall season has always been synonymous with starting over, taking on new projects and in this case, expanding my tastebuds and my packaged foods repertoire! Recently, I was provided with the unique and extraordinary opportunity to sample a new and innovative dairy product, Elli Quark! If you’re unfamiliar with Elli Quark, let me assure you in saying, you are in for a real treat. For those who may be fans of yogurt, especially of the Greek variety, Elli Quark is an excellent alternative and an opportunity to add variety and a chance of pace to the usual tastes of yogurt.

Elli Quark flavors listing

As a brief background of Elli Quark, it is an Orange County, California based company, founded by Preya Patel Bhakta in 2011, following immense tasting and exploration, cultivating a love for Quark, a German-style creamy cheese with the consistency and similar flavor to Greek yogurt. With the tagline, “Say Cheese! It’s yummier than yogurt,” Elli Quark prides itself in boasting it is almost half the calories of traditional Greek yogurt (Elli Quark’s 80 calories per 6oz container vs. 140 calories in a traditional 5.3oz Greek yogurt), plus it is almost 3X the protein in comparison to a traditional non-Greek yogurt (Elli Quark’s 14g of protein vs. 5g in a traditional, non-Greek yogurt). Also, for those wishing to limit or reduce their daily sugar-intake, Elli Quark is the ideal solution, with a mere 6g per container and absolutely NO artificial sweeteners! Both traditional and Greek yogurts often supply a whopping 26g of sugar or artificial sweeteners, so Elli Quark’s numbers are vastly impressive.

Elli Quark

Elli Quark Facts:

  • Questions about what Quark actually is? The official Elli Quark website (via states it is a “spoonable fresh cheese with a creamy texture similar to Greek yogurt, but with a richer, less sour taste and is lower in carbohydrates, high in protein, and is without any added sugars.”
  • Non-GMO, with all-natural ingredients.
  • Active on Social Media: Follow Elli Quark on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, and Instagram. Plus, be sure to check-out their website ( to sign up for their newsletter and emails and the opportunity to print a coupon off a container or two!
  • Safe for All: Elli Quark is not only vegetarian-friendly, but also free of corn, nut and soy, with no preservatives, added sugars or artificial sweeteners, no gelatin, no gluten or any starchy fillers! It is truly a product you can feel safe eating, cooking, and experimenting with in the kitchen!
  • Uses for Elli Quark: Feel comfortable and take pride in knowing there are numerous ways to enjoy Elli Quark. Whether it is spooning into a container for an enjoyable snack, addition to a meal, ingredient in your baking and cooking, as a topping, or a spread, the possibilities are endless!
  • Containers of Elli Quark are a full 6oz, versus the typical 5.3oz container of a traditional Greek yogurt! Therefore, you’re not only receiving more Quark for your money, but also (in my opinion, is more filling than regular Greek yogurt)

Elli Quark facts

Elli Quark Flavors:

  • Plain
  • Mint Chocolate
  • Bananas Foster
  • Peach
  • Sea Salt Caramel
  • Lemon
  • Blueberry
  • Strawberry
  • Pineapple
  • Red Velvet
  • Cherry
  • Vanilla Bean

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How to Get Elli Quark:

So at this point, you may be thinking, okay, Elli Quark sounds amazing, BUT, how in the world do I get it? If you’re thinking this, believe me, I definitely understand and can relate. I felt this way at some point not along ago, myself. Reading all about it on some of my favorite blogs, I wanted to get my hands on a container as soon as possible, especially after seeing these flavors and the impressive nutritional facts (80 calories, plus 14 grams of protein and NOTHING artificial?! That alone had me convinced!). So without further adieu, here are your options:

  • Head on over to and use their store locator tool ( Simply type in your zip code and voila, store locations will populate, OR if you fail to return any store locations in your general area, no worries, there are still other options available to you.
  • Order online via The ordering process is simple and easy, plus you can BUILD YOUR OWN 12-Pack, with up to 4 FLAVORS! Therefore, the ordering process is truly individualized, so it is to your own, unique specifications. For those of you who might be concerned about how it stays fresh through all that travel, your concerns can be alleviated and you can be reassured in knowing they are neatly and securely packed in a large box with reusable gel packs, keeping all containers extremely cold and fresh! If you’re still concerned, I can personally attest this is true. In the box I received, everything felt as though it was being pulled directly from a refrigerator and was neatly packed. Once your order is received, it is shipped within 1-3 business days and arrives at your home shortly after.
  • Request it at your local store: If you’d rather purchase Elli Quark in-store, but it isn’t currently offered, feel free to request it through contacting your local store’s dairy manager.

How is Elli Quark Sweetened?

You might be wondering how Elli Quark gets its sweetness if it does not contain any added sugars or artificial sweeteners and the answer is simple: through Stevia and Erythritol, plant-based sweeteners. They are naturally-occurring and are not said to cause any digestion-based side effects, spikes in blood sugars and contain zero calories.

My Review:

As I mentioned, I was recently provided with a shipment of all 12 flavors of Elli Quark! I was so excited and overjoyed to have been provided with this opportunity to sample and review. Unlike other companies who may use artificial dyes or other ingredients, Elli Quark uses real, fresh fruit in their fruit-flavors and after trying several containers, the actual taste of the fruit truly shines through. For instance, in the pineapple flavor, I felt as though I was being transported to the tropics as I spooned into the container, noting the sweet, familiar flavors of pineapple, with the creamy Quark texture. Similarly, in the blueberry, cherry and peach flavors, I felt as though I was indulging in a creamy custard or decadent dessert, as the sweetness and satisfying flavors of the fruit worked in ideal conjunction to the creaminess of the quark. It provided balance and texture, as each container of Elli Quark left me feeling pleasantly satisfied and appeased my appetite.

Elli Quark in a bowl

A full 6oz, I felt as though the container of Elli Quark was a heartier texture than the Greek yogurts I typically consume and a welcomed change from the often tangy taste of Greek yogurt. One of the most impressive flavors in my opinion and my definite favorite is the Vanilla Bean. Given the price and uniqueness of a true vanilla bean, it is rare to find a yogurt, ice cream, or really any product with an authentic vanilla bean. However, in the vanilla bean flavor of Elli Quark, it is actually made with real vanilla beans straight from their pod! Immediately upon removing the lid of the container, you can instantly see the flecks of the vanilla bean throughout the quark and the actual, vanilla flavor shines through. It is truly unlike any vanilla flavor I’ve tasted and one I could stand to enjoy multiple times throughout the week!

In my opinion, Elli Quark is a unique and valuable addition to the dairy shelves and one I am proud and excited to see! It is refreshing to have another product to add to my breakfasts, snack options and recipes, rather than simply relying on Greek or traditional yogurts. With the most unique flavors I’ve seen, I can’t wait to continue following along in Elli Quark’s journey and see and try the other flavors and products to come! I hope you’ll join me!

*A big thanks to the welcoming and kind team at Elli Quark who generously provided me with this unique opportunity to sample and review their products! It was an experience I thoroughly enjoyed and savored and am truly thankful to have had the chance.

Everything We Don’t See

It’s been a rough couple weeks for me, to say the least. It’s hard to place into words how it’s made me feel and where I am, emotionally right now, but nonetheless, I am trying my utmost best to pull through and keep my head up. I know that life can change at any instant, in both a positive and negative light, so I keep looking towards the future with the hope that life gets better. What I can control, I try to do so with good intentions. Like I’ve said before, intent is one of the most important aspects of life, or at least, to me it is anyway. It was something I learned at one of my old jobs. They used to stress the importance of intent in everything we did. I worked in a customer service department of a health insurance related company and the entire day consisted of me assisting individuals over the phone with their health insurance issues and questions. I didn’t always feel the most confident in my abilities, but the main thing the company wanted us to focus on was our intent. If our intent is always to help, then the other steps of correctly answering the customers’ questions or resolving their issues comes second. We can always find another co-worker, supervisor or employee to help us in answering the customer’s question, but if our good intent is missing, then all is downhill from there. When I first heard this perspective, it was a new concept to me. For most of my life, I had always focused on how well I could answer questions and resolve issues. For instance, throughout school, in math class, the goal is mainly to answer the questions correctly, and so I never really considered the steps I took in getting there. I later realized that we can take many of the correct steps and still come up with the wrong answer, but as long as initial instinct and intent was on the right path, then that is really what is most important.

What I more or less mean, is that we don’t always see what successes we’ve made, or how much we’ve accomplished through life if we don’t have something tangible to show for it. In other words, just because we don’t have an abundance of wealth, a large amount of “friends,” the largest house or a closet full of designer clothing, does not mean we haven’t been successful or made good choices in our lives. It doesn’t mean we haven’t helped someone by offering a helping hand or listening ear. It doesn’t mean we haven’t inspired a child by fully listening to them and encouraging them. It also doesn’t mean we aren’t beautiful just because our faces aren’t blemish free, or our hair isn’t poker straight, sans free of frizz and split ends. It just means we are beautiful in a different way, a way that is unique to what is thought to be conventionally “beautiful.” The meaning and connotation of beautiful is so very different to each and every person.

My aforementioned thoughts were more or less inspired by a quote shared by my cousin on Facebook. A couple days ago, I was innocently trolling through Facebook posts, when I stumbled across my cousin’s, which spoke to and resonated with me in more ways than I can truly verbalize. Perhaps you’ve seen it before or maybe not, but all the same, I thought it was best for me to share it in hopes that maybe someone else who could be reading this, might be as inspired or intrigued as I was:

“It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up silent with our chests rising & falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care in your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when you’re laughing and smiling and pure happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly your authentic self.

Reading this lead me to question, when am I my most authentic self? I’m my most authentic self when I am laughing with those I love most, forgetting about all the insecurities, failures, missed opportunities and chances. I’m most my authentic self when the disappointments and sadness I feel are pushed aside because I’m having too much fun and joy seeing my niece smiling and waving and experiencing all the goodness of life for the first time. I’m most my most authentic self when I look outside at the leaves beginning to fall and see not a missed opportunity at a changing season, but a chance for a pleasant and fulfilling future filled with love, happiness and success.

Season Quote

What it Takes to Know: A Month of Reflection

It’s hard to believe about a month or so has passed since I last posted. At the beginning of this month, I embarked on a new venture in the job realm. While I was apprehensive about it, I decided to take a chance, feeling as though the possibility of success and at least some type of learning experience could come of it. That said, the morning of the first day, I awoke with a sense of fear and dread, questioning what I’d gotten myself into. Did I act on a whim? Should I have given my decision more thought? These were real, true wonders I had and I could feel my sense of dread growing with every minute inching me closer towards my 8:30am start.

What I walked into is nothing I’d like to describe. In fact, I’d like to keep most of those thoughts for my own private reference and reflection, but what I’d like to share is mainly what I’ve learned, even if it might seem cliche, or obvious to some people.

  • The easiest and quickest way to be sad and lonely is try to be someone you’re not. Whether it is through working at a certain-type of job or environment, spending time with people who don’t understand you, don’t respect you, or most importantly, celebrate you for who you ARE, quirks included.
  • I like to do my best, whether I am going to receive a benefit or not. It doesn’t matter to me if I will gain something monetarily, emotionally, or anything else. If I am going to do something, I will strive to do it with all my heart. It doesn’t matter if someone else has snubbed me or lead me astray, I will still try my best to do what I feel is right.
  • Intention means more than doing something the “correct way.” For instance, I didn’t always complete each task the “right” way when learning new skills in different jobs, or in school, but what I’ve learned through the years is that if my INTENT is to help, or to do something with all my heart and effort, than that is what really matters.
  • When I make a mistake, I OWN UP to it. I don’t deny that I haven’t always made the right choices or decisions, whether small, insignificant or not, but I will always admit to it. Sometimes admitting to certain mistakes are easier than others, but I will still admit fault where and when warranted. I’m not ashamed to show people I’m not faultless. Yes, I have quirks, insecurities, fears, worries, sometimes I can come off as a perfectionist, sometimes I can talk too fast, sometimes I can obsess over things other people might give little thought to. These all make me who I am, but I’m not trying to pretend.
  • What I’ll never understand is why people choose to behave one way towards another person and then completely turn around and snub them in the worst of ways. I’ve contemplated this for weeks now, as to why other people choose to bring other people down. I will never understand why or how people would be able to obtain personal satisfaction and gratification from knowing they’ve hurt someone, insulted them, or made them feel awful. I could never understand or imagine someone feeling remotely happy or pleased with themselves knowing they’ve made their coworker hang their head in shame, or sit in their car sobbing to themselves, feeling as though they are worthless. I know that as individuals, we really shouldn’t give people the power to decide our fate and feelings, but sometimes, feeling badly when someone has used repugnant words or expressed negative and discerning emotions towards us, it is beyond difficult to not feel badly. For me personally, throughout my life, I’ve been guilty of internalizing the way other people treat me. I’ve taken their harsh words and emotions and used it against myself in ways to cause myself even more pain and for this, it makes me human. It makes me human to admit I’m not faultless and sometimes I care too much about what others think and how others perceive me. When it comes down to it though, my goal in life is to never make someone feel like they need to question who they are, or be ashamed of who they are. Everyone has something about them that makes them unique and rather than question or criticize these quirks or creative differences, I’d rather be the one celebrating them.
  • I’d rather make someone smile each and every day, then be the one who is making them cry. Enough said.

So yes, this month has been one filled with tumultuous emotions, tears and smiles. This month brought the celebration of my niece’s first birthday, and also allowed me to make choices and reflections on my life path. While others might question my choices and scratch their heads wondering about my reasoning, that’s not for them to decide. Not everyone’s path is for everyone else, and you know what? That’s exactly how it should be. It all goes back to that one Robert Frost quote I’ve come to know and highly regard: “I took the road less traveled and it has made all the difference.” I first acquainted myself with that quote on a college admission essay question to Northwestern University. I never thought that very quote would prove to follow me throughout the course of my life, a decade later.

Belief Quote

Nonetheless, here I am. I’m filled with ideas, dreams and goals. I try to see it as not a mess of a life, but more so a maze. Yes, a maze, that while the path is not always crystal clear, or easy to navigate, but one filled with adventure and promise, and though I might have to work a little harder than some to get through it, I tell myself, “don’t worry, you’ll get there soon.” For now, I’ll enjoy it and tell myself, life has ways of surprising us and to trust it’s process.

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A Quotable Thursday

Good morning! I realize the title of my post is not a very creative one, but if anything, I feel it does accurately describe what the contents of this post will end up becoming. Anyone who knows me or reads this blog, is aware that quotes are one of my favorite things to read, share and post. They offer me not only perspective, but the utmost source of contemplation, inspiration and often serve as a muse for writing. Lately, I’ve seen a large outpouring of quotes I really have taken to on Twitter. Therefore, I thought I might share some of them, thinking they might be of interest to others, or at least provide some introspect as we begin to ease into the end of a long week. Before I do that, I’d just like to mention that if you haven’t already heard, today just so happens to be National Cheesecake Day!

Memory Quote   Cherry Cheesecake

I’ll be first to admit, cheesecake is a definite favorite of mine. I’ve never considered myself to be all that fond of chocolate cake, though of course, it has its moments, but for me, cheesecake is the ultimate dessert and one I’ve highly-regarded since childhood, though I don’t eat it all that often. That said, some of my fondest memories are of sharing a slice of cheesecake with my dad at a local diner and also, at the famed NYC spot, Lindy’s. My dad and I shared a similar fondness for cheesecake, anything cherry flavored (sodas, Twizzlers, etc), so looking back on this helps bring back a bit of childhood happiness (how appropriate, since today is a Throwback Thursday, anyway, right?!)

Memories Quote

Without further adieu, here are some quotes currently on my radar; I hope you enjoy them as much as I have:

  • “Be yourself, because and original is worth more than a copy.”
  • “It is better to learn late, than never.”
  • “Happiness is the secret to all beauty. There is no beauty without happiness.”
  • “Watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you, because greatest secrets are often hidden in the most unlikely places.”
  • “If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.”
  • “Nothing haunts us like the things we don’t say.”
  • “Nothing can be loved or hated until it is understood.”
  • “By having something to look forward to, you bring happiness into your life well before the event takes place.”
  • “Never regret something that once made you smile.”
  • “To send a letter is to go somewhere without moving anything but your heart.”
  • “The first step in healing is realizing there’s a wound.”
  • “Don’t waste time waiting for inspiration. Begin and inspiration will find you.”
  • “When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves.”
  • “Certain things capture your eye, but pursue only those that capture the heart.”
  • “Sometimes, it’s not the people who change, it’s the mask that falls off.”

Always believe

Is it or Isn’t it?

Good Morning! I hope your weekend was a pleasant one. This past weekend was a fairly routine one for me, though on Saturday morning, my mind and emotions were churning as I perused Facebook and spotted an article, now widely popular and circulating nationwide. The article I speak of, I originally spotted via my local ABC News affiliate’s Facebook page (6abc Philadelphia) and detailed/shared 11th grade Brooklyn, NY High School student, Chanie Gorkin‘s poem. If you read it top to bottom, yes, the poem is a poignant and eloquently-written one, but it is when you read it from the bottom to the top, when you (or at least, I did) suddenly realize how truly creative, unique, and inspiring it is. If you’re unfamiliar with this specific poem I’m referring to, here is a link to the article and the actual poem, itself:

“Worst Day Ever?” By Chanie Gorkin

Today was the absolute worst day ever
And don’t try to convince me that
There’s something good in every day
Because, when you take a closer look,
This world is a pretty evil place.
Even if
Some goodness does shine through once in a while
Satisfaction and happiness don’t last.
And it’s not true that
It’s all in the mind and heart
True happiness can be obtained
Only if one’s surroundings are good
It’s not true that good exists
I’m sure you can agree that
The reality
My attitude
It’s all beyond my control
And you’ll never in a million years hear me say that
Today was a good day

**Now read from the bottom to top.

Wow, truly, wow, is nearly all I can really begin to say about this poem. I was taken by such surprise and awe. As a person who used to write a lot of poems myself (see my Poems and Literary page on this blog, if you’re curious), I was truly speechless. The poem is so beyond the point of creativity, that I can’t even imagine how she would have thought of something like this. It’s not like anything I’ve ever seen and while yes, I may very well be overly enthusiastic about it, since I am a person who has an affinity for words, I always look to those who can write with such creativity and tact with the utmost admiration. Though the writer of this poem may be a decade younger than me, it truly shows that writing ability knows no age. It doesn’t matter one’s age, education, employment status, or anything they’ve been through or encountered, anyone and everyone has the ability to be able to write something inspiring and of the utmost meaning.

Words Quote

Not only though, was the way in which this poem was constructed unique, but the words themselves almost reach out and take hold of the feelings I often harbor within. It can be true that in weathering through life, one day can feel like the worst day, ever, and then the next day, or a couple days/weeks later, all can seem content and promising. Sometimes, I feel like this poem is a way of confirming the thought: “Life is a paradox.” In any case, this poem grabbed hold of me and given the number of shares, comments, likes, and how it is appearing all over social media and TV, apparently, it has struck a cord with others, too.

Writing quote

Worthy of Being You

The following post will probably be one of the most impromptu I’ve ever written, thus far. Just moments ago, I was mindlessly perusing Twitter as I so often do, throughout the day and stumbled across a tweet from one of my many favorite magazines, Good Housekeeping. I’ve read the magazine for years despite not being in their specifically targeted age demographic and have always found something I could relate to, no matter what. That being said, this morning’s tweet featured a link to an article written by bestselling author, Jennifer Wiener, published in the August 2015 issue of the magazine. After quickly reading the article, I felt overly inspired and more than compelled to both tweet about it, as well as craft a blog post surrounding it.

Good Housekeeping   Jennifer Weiner

A link to the Good Housekeeping article:

If you’re not a follower of Good Housekeeping on social media, a reader of the magazine, or familiar with them at all, I wanted to share it with whomever may be reading, because I feel as though it is an article that can be used as inspiration, support, awareness and may come as a realization, that we are not alone in some of the sentiments we may experience on a daily basis. For me, this post resonated on more than a singular level. In the article, the author describes how she avoided photos like the plague, stating she felt she looked “disgusting, horrible and bloated,” believing as though she didn’t deserve to be seen in a photo, feeling guilt and shame surrounding her appearance. She also stated the amount of sadness and regret she feels when looking back on parts of her life, because the photos of these times are absent. Perhaps the most poignant section of this story, in relation to myself is this:

“What I’d say is that perfect is impossible. When the camera comes out, don’t hide. Tell yourself that every time a real, imperfect woman shows up in a photograph, an angel gets its wings … and a girl who sees it might believe that her looks are OK.

Be brave. Smile and say, “Here I am.”

It’s hard for me to explain how much the author’s words truly mean to me and resonate. I can’t even begin to recall all the times I’ve hidden and shied away from the camera, of how many moments I’ve missed out or how many moments I wish I could visually recall and can’t because I hid from the camera. In August 2014, I became an aunt to my beautiful, intelligent and inspiring niece, who I love with every ounce of myself, and the only photo I have of she, my sister and I, is one from when my dog, Oliver was having surgery and we were waiting for him in the waiting room. It hurts to know this and it isn’t because of any other reason than me, avoiding the camera. So maybe today, I’ll take a photo, a photo that should have been taken whenever I felt so inclined, and be proud to be here, be proud I have the ability to take a photo, and the courage to look at it, be okay with the image looking at back at me, and bravely say, as the article states, “Here I am.”

Choices and their Consequences

About a month or two ago, while perusing several websites, including one of my favorites for books, Goodreads, I stumbled across an author whose two books called to me. Her third book, slated to be released this month, in July, was also one that had particular appeal to me, so I immediately requested all three from my local library. After reading the first two, already-released books, Taylor Jenkins Reid, the author of the books I am referring to, quickly became one of my favorite, go-to authors. Her writing is simple yet poignant, with words and stories I can easily relate to. The books have a certain flow to them, one where I can start reading, and then look at the clock next to me and realize an hour has passed. Her stories have the ability to take hold of deeply-etched emotions with me, bringing back feelings of the past and allowing me to deal and process with those sentiments I neglected years ago.

Taylor Jenkins Reid 1     Taylor Jenkins Reid 2

Needless to say, when I learned of the title of her newest, third novel, “Maybe in Another Life,” the memories of my past came flooding to me. I often spend chunks of the day wondering what my life would have been like if I had made another choice in various situations, or if I hadn’t made a choice at all, or if I had simply spoken up verbally, rather than through bodily actions. Throughout my life, I regrettably made a lot of rash decisions seeking instant gratification or to numb myself from the situation at hand, without considering future consequences. I suppose a part of that was being young, not realizing how the actions of the present time could prove to impact me in future years to come. Often as a teenager, it’s difficult to really understand the impact of our actions. I’ll be first admit I was self-centered in much of my adolescence, often believing it was a catastrophe if I had no weekend plans, or if I wasn’t invited out with friends. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that decisions made as a 17-year-old still feel hauntingly poignant in my life, now as a 27-year-old.

Taylor Jenkins Reid New

That being said, the title, Maybe in Another Life, has lead me to contemplate and wonder, some of the many “what-if’s,” in my life, so rather than have them running rampant in my often frenzied mind, I figured I would share them and ask those of you who might reading, how you might finish this sentence, “Maybe in another life, I would have…” The other day, the author herself, Taylor Jenkins Reid, posed this question on Twitter to her followers and it stayed with me, triggering an outpouring of memories and contemplations.

My senior year photo from 2006.

My senior year photo from 2006; sharing a time when a lot of the choices I made at that time proves to still impact me, very much so, today.

“Maybe in Another Life,”….

  • I would have been a magazine editor/journalist, working in the city, interviewing different types of people, writing articles, researching, and discovering my voice as a writer.
  • I would have a great group of friends who love me for who I am, no matter my quirks, who bring out the best me, who I would meet on the weekends for a lingering brunch of excellent food and conversation and share laughs about the latest TV shows, guys we’re dating, and other events.
  • I would have been in a loving relationship with a man who makes me feel loved, cared for and appreciated. He would love me for who I am, no matter the blemishes, imperfect aspects of my personality and body and would celebrate me for the person I am and who I’ve become. He would comfort me when sad, share in my laughs and tears, and hold my hand every night as we feel asleep together. With him, there would be no self-conscious feeling, no wondering if he likes or truly loves me, no games, but only simple, wholesome love.
  • I would have been married and a mom to children; children who would grow up to be loving, well-adjusted individuals.
  • I would have been more trusting and confident in my body, respecting myself and realizing I am not my body, but a woman with thoughts, feelings, dreams and goals who tries her hardest to be supportive and encouraging to others.
  • I would have a father in my life who loves and respects me and acknowledges/validates my feelings, who doesn’t make me feel ashamed of myself or ashamed of my body. He would offer me advice and provide me with encouragement and love.
  • I would travel extensively throughout the world, seeing different cultures, learning different languages and allowing myself to relish in the beauty of the various architecture and lands.
  • I would be able to eat and enjoy anything and everything I wanted, realizing that food is something to be enjoyed and celebrated, not pushed away or manipulated. I would enjoy plentiful meals with friends and family, cooking all the recipes I’d love to and able to share in the love that is that of homemade meals.
  • Most importantly though, maybe in another life, I would be confident enough to take the risks I think about taking and allow myself to feel pain and disappointment that might come with these risks, but realize failure isn’t final and that each new day is another chance to make a change and to even start all over again. Maybe in another life, I would have the courage to start over and live the past 10 years the way I thought I always would. Maybe in another life, I would realize it really isn’t too late, because every moment alive I’m given affords me with a chance for change and a chance for happiness.

Start Over Quote

So, now that I’ve told you some of my “maybe in another life” responses, I’d love to hear what some of yours are, if you’re willing to share, which I hope you will be. Thanks for taking the time to listen today.