Yes. Whether you say it as oui, si, or in any other language of your choice, it is a word that often comes with an impact, whether monumental, or minuscule. Some of us, (myself, included) will often say yes to things I’d like to say no to. Sometimes, I say it out of guilt, fear, laziness, or worry. Other times, I say it because I feel if I do it, perhaps I’ll come to enjoy it. Then there are many other times, both past and present, where I wish I HAD said yes, but instead said no and shied away from opportunity, chances and experiences. It’s sometimes difficult to make the decision to say either yes or no and after making a final decision, having to deal with the repercussions of it, if they happen to be negative.
That being said, yesterday while perusing some of my favorite social media pages, I stumbled across an article posted by a coupon service I often frequent – RedPlum. It was an article written by Jennifer Frye and appeared on their October 7, 2015 blog post. If you’d like to view the actual post I’m referencing, here is the link to browse at your convenience: http://www.redplum.com/blog/151007/6-things-you-should-consider-saying-yes-to
In the post, the author highlighted 6 things we should consider saying yes to. The article left me reflecting and considering what I have in fact said yes to through the years. Here is what the author feels we should say yes to and my perspective on it:
- Making time for you. Your physical health and overall well-being are a priority. Do take the time to relax, exercise, read a book, take a bubble bath, or do anything that makes you happy.
My Take on it: I think this is of the utmost importance and completely agree with the author’s suggestion. Often times, when I find myself overly-stressed or worried, taking time to relax, through reading a book, listening to music and belting out my favorite tunes, or indulging in a favorite movie, like “Serendipity,” leaves me feeling rejuvenated and puts things into perspective for me.
2. Go out on the town. Visit a new museum or restaurant downtown. Catch a movie, grab drinks with your friends, have fun outside of the home.
My Take on it: This is a fun idea to indulge in and think about. Sometimes, it’s simply running to the nearest Starbucks, taking time to sit and savor a favorite beverage, taking in the scenery and relishing in the moment. Other times, it could be going apple picking (as I did this past week!) and spending time in nature, enjoying the weather, Fall foliage and landscapes
3. Take a random trip somewhere. If the opportunity to travel presents itself, just go. Whether it is to Japan, South Africa, or Paris remember to see the world.
My Take on it: Oh, how I absolutely love this idea! I’m a traveler at heart, but I don’t get to travel nearly as often as I’d love to. The idea of one day visiting Paris and enjoying the Eiffel Tower, practicing my French language skills and indulging in the French cuisine are all travel plans I aspire to someday fulfill! Though, even the smaller trips, such as a couple years ago, when my sister and I visited Delaware for a brewery tour and some outlet shopping, can make the all the difference and is still an experience in itself.
4. Make a new friend. You never know where introducing yourself to a co-worker, classmate, or a neighbor can lead, possibly to a new friendship. Take the time to meet new people.
My Take on it: This is definitely true and I have done this numerous times in the past. For instance, back in middle school (starting in 6th grade), I became acquainted with the girl who would become my best friend through senior year on the bus ride on the first day of school. Other times, I met another close friend in a summer class I took in college, prior to my senior year. We can often meet friends in the most unlikely places (in line at a store, in a doctor’s office, etc, the possibilities are endless) and in my mind, a new friend is always welcome and something I’ll say yes to.
5. Spending time with family. It is important to nurture and spend time with the people that matter the most in your life. Call, Skype, or visit your parents, siblings, cousins, and grandparents as much as possible.
My Take on it: I’m a family girl at heart, so this is something I will surely always say yes to without having to put much thought into it. My mom and sister are my closest confidantes, so I always value and cherish the time I spend with them. Since becoming an Aunt in August 2014, spending time with my niece is always the highlight of my life, as well.
6. Accomplish your goals. Never give up on your goals. Overcome your fears and take the first step to seeing your dreams come to pass.
My Take on it: How true is this? It’s difficult to really place into words, but many times over the years, I’ve proven this concept to be true. What immediately comes to mind is my high school years. I may have mentioned this on here before, but early on in my high school years, I applied to be a writer on the Reality section of my local newspaper, which is a teen section published once-per-week. It allows adolescent writers on the teen panel to write about anything and everything they are interested in. It was my goal to write for the section since childhood, having read the newspaper on a regular basis since assigned current events in elementary school. The first year I applied, I was rejected, with the editor telling me my writing simply wasn’t “up to par,” or the type of writing that would appeal to readers. Hearing this, part of me was crushed, discouraged and let down. Since I am often critical of myself in general, I decided to make it my goal to try again next year and throughout the year, hone my writing skills, working as hard as I could to improve them. Unsure if I was able to accomplish this, the subsequent Summer, once again, I submitted an application to join the Reality panel and much to my surprise, was graciously accepted and welcomed aboard! My excitement was palpable and I began to envision all the possibilities and the ideas I wanted to explore and document. That particular school year, I entered filled with promise and excitement. The day I found out I would be joining the panel, my friend took me to celebrate and I remember feeling euphoric as we indulged in a celebratory slice of cheesecake. That being said, never giving up on your dreams and goals is definitely, without question, something to say a profound, concrete YES to.
So there you have it. Now that you’ve read the author’s suggestions and my take on it, what will you say yes to, today?